You meet, you hit it off, you get really excited because you’ve finally found a great guy, and after that…silence.
Once you’ve hit day 4 all hope dissipates and you must sadly accept the fact that you will never be hearing from him.
However, it wasn’t until I broke the rules that I realized this type of situation can’t be so easily explained, or dismissed.
Experience is the best teacher of all and this particular experience was an eye-opener and game-changer for sure. I met up with a friend one Saturday afternoon at a bar for a football game. He was cute, charming, and we seriously hit it off right away.
I recently attended a Lock and Key event at Blue Martini in Brickell.
And yes, the females wear lock necklaces while the men wear keys.
I’ve had girls get back to me THREE DAYS LATER…even THREE MONTHS LATER, “Yeah. Most hot women have men orbiting on standby, dicks in hand.
After watching the crowd (who were all so friendly), they were so much more receptive to one another than the usual club gathering.
Our afternoon of fun turned into a night out and me, my friend, J, and his friend bar-hopped, talked, laughed, danced, and played pool until the wee hours.
Before heading home, J and I planned a date for that Thursday.
Santa Barbara Matchmakings Lisa Darsonval can help.
The go-to local matchmaker hosts regular Lock and Key parties that offer a space for matching that is as straightforward as it is creative.